realationship

ok so maybe I'm overreacting but my bf always finds a reason to be mad at me. Even if its for the smallest of things and its soo confusing to me. Like just a second ago he told me that we needed to talk about some things in our relationship which is fine but its like i know he's going to start something with me the last time this happened he was mad at me because of what someone else said about him and ye that person was and still is my friend I should've backed him up i know and i do all the time now. but the reason I'm writing this is because we've broken up 4-5 times and every time it was him breaking up with me over stuff we could've talked about with each other but he just says he wants to break up then like 5 mins later we get back together and its ridiculous so i told him the next time it happens in done with him for good and that's that. And not only all of this but when i hit him its an issue for him but when he slaps my ass and invades my personal space its fine because he's my bf and my feeling about it don't matter to him when it comes to that. Not only all of this but if he feels like his masculinely is being challenged or be little'd he gets upset like on valentines day we exchanged gift but when he saw that my gift was better than his [also his words] he told me he didn't want it and gave it back. He constantly says that i don't care about his feelings but all I've done is care anytime he brought up an issue he had with me i did my best to fix it. And anytime i have an issue with something that might hurt his feelings i just suck it up and try to ignore how I'm feeling for him so he can be happy and we don't have to argue. But like always " i don't care" about how he's feeling. this part might be me overreacting but the first thing he does when he has an issue with something dealing with us is he goes and tells my friends before even mentioning it to me so we could fix the issue. And not only that but sometimes when he knows im in a gc and he has an issue with something he will say s" should i break up with my girlfriend" and then the issue were having. And then he acts like he didn't know i was in the gc and says " Oh u weren't supposed to see that" knowing i was in the gc in the first place. Am i overreacting?

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anonymous Relationships April 04, 2023 at 4:09 pm 1 1