I(F16) really like two guys. for the purpose of this rant their names will be Brandon(M15) and Wyatt(M17). I have known Wyatt for about a year now. When we met, he offered me ice cream while I cried in the hallway at school after a bad breakup. We became close friends, and he liked me. Sense I had just met him I decided to hold off. I wanted to know him better first. He did a lot of drugs and smoked A LOT. I knew with my background that wasn't good, but he remained a very very close friend of mine. He ended up getting a girlfriend Celia (F15 not her real name). He and Celia got super close over time, and I was very happy for him. Then he met a girl Rose (F14 not her real name) Brandon's girlfriend at the time. Celia started getting weird about Rose. Wyatt and Rose got very close. Celia and Wyatt ended up breaking up due to him being mentally abusive and some other things. Rose and Wyatt only got closer and spending nights together, so a friend and I ended up telling Brandon what was going on. I got closer to Brandon over time, but Rose and Wyatt often talked badly about Brandon. Brandon and Rose ended things. I kind of liked Brandon and he liked me. I chose Wyatt but soon found out he used me to get back at Rose for something. I ended up getting sent to a residential after overdosing. When I got out, I blocked them all because I couldn't keep being a part of their drama. I now have unblocked them all. I realllllllllllllly like Wyatt again but i also like Brandon. They hate each other. Brandon now knows I like him and oml. He makes me laugh and smile and he cares about me. He talks to me every day and I know If I'm going through something I can tell him. With Wyatt He talks to people other than me, but he also hangs out with me and is nice to me. He too makes me smile but he also breaks my heart without even knowing it and I know he probably doesn't like me at all. Writing this makes me want Brandon more but I don't want to lose Wyatt over this. I don't know what to do.
MayaCrushes August 09, 2022 at 4:33 am
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You've seen how Wyatt is with others, and I don't mean to be blunt here, but how would it be different for you. In the relationships you've observed him in, he only seems to chose things that please himself. At the moment, he doesn't seem like someone you could connect to on a relationship level, though that may change in the future if he changes.
However, I don't know the full story, so can't make a full judgement.
Brandon is easier. You both obviously get along very well, you make each other smile, and if that's all there is to it, what more do you want? I'd explore how he is feeling relationship wise, and let him know you're open, even if you kind of say it in a jokingly-slightly-pointed way.
But, remember to focus on other things. I have a similar problem at the minute, and sometimes, especially in these type of relationships, things work out without you doing much.
I do wish you the best, and hope you end up happy regardless who it is. Sabina 3 years ago
update- I ended up blocking Wyatt and rose again. I'm now in a 1 month as of today relationship with Brandon. He and I are very happy. Maya 3 years ago
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